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Complexities



Here in Japan, I have spent thousands of hours working with students over the last two years. As daunting as it sounds, it gave me a chance to interact with the complexities of humanity.

A five year old, for example, who was one of the most mature people I’ve ever met. Not only skillfully prepared for each lesson, but also joyous when entering the room. They sung songs in a foreign language and answered questions with poise, all while keeping an eye on their little sister.

A high-schooler, as well, who lives in the hot climate of Central Japan. Despite this, they found a passion for, of all things, snowboarding. We discussed coaches, training routines, and weekly competitions. Quite reserved in nature, what I most respected was their sense of humor during every difficult mock-exam.

Also, an elegant 75 year old lady. We chatted about her travels around the world, upbringing as a mandolin player, and fondness of Audrey Hepburn. Quite evident was an extreme curiosity for the United States, a place she hopes to visit one day.

The complexities of these individuals, and all individuals, continue to amaze me.

J.S

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